In another thread, jdworth wrote:
Quote:Again, thank you for the courteous nature of your response
The implication, though perhaps inadvertent, is that a courteous reply from me is the exception, rather than the rule. An objective look at the totality of my contributions here (under both accounts) will show this to be untrue, I think. Unfortunately, people tend to remember most vividly what stirs their emotions, which can then skew the memory of the countless posts that did not have that effect.
Of course, "courtesy" and its opposite are, like most such things, also in the eye of the beholder. For instance, adopting anything other than a reverential tone toward S.T. Joshi, or even, heaven help us, L. Sprague de Camp, seems to be a dreadful
faux pas--in this forum, at least.
Some additional thoughts.
In my inaugural post to this thread, I tried to explain, for those few who might care, the philosophy behind the tone I take here. Bland inoffensiveness and the stifling of personal opinion do not represent the "high road"--far from it. It is the road of the lowest common denominator; the road of the sheep descending to the valley.
Of course, those who disagree are welcome to abstain from engaging with me on any subject. Before soaking me with personal invective, however--like Stanley's manly little outburst of Yiddish in the "Les Daniels" thread--it might be wise to tap one's walls to see what material they're made of. If they turn out to be glass, then one might want to reconsider hurling that stone. Stan, for instance, made a rude comment about the turns the Daniels thread took, then seemed genuinely shocked and outraged when he received a (comparatively mild) rebuke from me. Of course, hypocrisy is not front-page news, but it's worth noting in this instance, as an example.
As for blunt statements of personal opinion, those who are really so insecure and thin-skinned that my views, say, on kitschy horror book cover artwork or on the (de)merits of Dunsany sends them into apoplexy might want to consider that at least part of the problem lies with them.